This is no ordinary card game. This deck has been intentionally designed to bring two or more unique individuals closer by removing walls and exploring what makes us feel loved and understood.
Bonus: You will also likely learn to love yourself more.
Intimacy means different things to different people. We believe intimacy is a form of connection where each of us has a sense of closeness, openness, honesty, vulnerability and trust. This connection grows by creating a safe space where we feel comfortable expressing ourselves fully. Come to a place where listening, sharing and feeling without judgement is possible and encouraged.
We have focused on three types of intimacy that when combined inspire a truly authentic bond. These are: Emotional, Physical and Energetic Intimacy.
Intimacy Cards allow for moments of deep sharing, meaningful conversations, thoughtful reflection, physical touch, playfulness and shared experiences. Energetic connections are a powerful level of intimacy that ask us to feel into our intuition, focus on energy and feel without touching, tapping into vibrations in various ways.
Love is a byproduct of intimacy. By creating these connections, we are inviting love into our lives.
The rules seem simple but are very important.
Important Note
Specifically with the Emotional Intimacy cards, after reading the question, you should both/all be ready with your answer before the first person begins to share. We don’t want anyone thinking about their answer while someone is sharing an intimate detail about their life. There is no time limit to this game. Savor each step that brings you closer, no matter how long it takes. If you find one card inspires a conversation that takes all evening, let it happen. Go with the flow. Maybe that’s just what you needed.
There are 30 Emotional Cards, 20 Physical Cards, 10 Energetic Cards and 6 Wild Cards. Each level of intimacy has its own symbol and requires different types of vulnerability, openness and closeness.
We recommend you play with one partner: couples, friends, or new acquaintances. You may also choose to play in a small group if you wish.
So to begin, find somewhere quiet with minimal distractions. Create a safe space. Sit a little closer to each other. We recommend facing one another, sitting comfortably. Phone ringers off. Dim the lights or light candles if you’re feeling it.
Notice the 3 types of intimacy. You can choose from each category or you can choose from the “all” section and see what you get. Since you can’t pass out the Wild Cards, just read them and think about how you relate to each concept. Without them, intimacy would not be possible. And know that you have a way to pass on a card if you aren’t feeling it. Keep it in your digital pocket.
Take a couple of long intentional breaths and then with trust, courage and respect for the unique human in front of you, pick your first card.
Everyone responds to the card. Alternate who responds first and who picks the next one.
Truth be told, we can’t imagine anyone finishing this game in one sitting. Making time for each other is crucial, but we don’t always have the luxury of time. So we have several options for you. (see WAYS TO PLAY)
3-2-1 Method
This method engages all three types of Intimacy. Take turns picking a total of 3 Emotional Cards, 2 Physical Cards and 1 Energetic Card. Open your round with an Energetic Card. Then play the rest in any order you choose. In 10 rounds, you’ll be an intimacy pro.
Just One, Or Two
Perhaps you feel a little off between you and your partner and you want a little intimate pick-me-up. Did you just get in a fight? Were you away from each other for too long? Or maybe you just want to add something special to the evening by having some quality time. Pick 1 card each from the deck at random. After completion, if the mood is right, go on and choose another, who’s counting?
Open To All
Intimacy is not just for couples. We believe in bringing everyone closer. If you have a small get together and you want to make some memories, bring out the Intimacy Cards. Emotional cards work great for this scenario. And don’t underestimate the power of exploring physical and energetic intimacy with your friends. You can make smaller groups if you need to. Feel free to modify a card to work with more than 2 people. Don’t forget to wait until everyone has an answer in their mind before starting the round for an Emotional card. This might take a few moments. Practice patience and presence.
As You Wish
Of course these are all suggested methods, but the truth is, these are your cards now and you can use them in any way you desire. Try using them as oracle cards. Some might not be appropriate for all, so trust your intuition, use your own discretion and enjoy.
